What do you want on your tombstone - and why?
Tombstones aren't exactly common any more. You don't see them too often. Not new ones, anyway. But every now and then I see one in my travels. The most elaborate was a block of cement with writing scratched into the surface, probably with a pocket knife. Her name was Sheila. I couldn't read anything else but I took a picture of it. To remember her, whoever she was. Someone thought she was important and I wanted to honor that. I have lots of pictures like it. Stones, pieces of wood, crosses. I think the saddest was a grave in the woods, marked with a children's book. It had been there for a while but I could still read part of the title. Harry P—something. I guess his name was Harry. I took a picture of that one, too.

You need friends or family to remember you, don't you? Someone to care enough to mark your passing? I haven't been at Thunder Mountain long but if anything happened to me, maybe Kurdy would erect something. That's supposing God hasn't sent me off somewhere else to carry another message. Supposing anyone even noticed I was gone.

Whatever happens, if anyone did honor me with a marker, I think I'd like it to say, "He wasn't crazy." I'm not, you know. And when I do die (again), I think what I'd like most of all is to hear that Voice on the other side say, "You did well."

Musings on secrets: one thing nobody knows about me
If you could change one moment in your past, what would it be?
What's a typical day for you?
What is your weapon of choice?
Would you choose to live forever if you had a choice?
What makes you jealous and how do you feel about it?
Musings on Kurdy
Musings on Jeremiah
Musings on Markus
Exactly what did you say to that raider to get him to kill himself and his associates?
Money, fame or happiness, you can only have one... what would you rather have and why?
Do you believe in an afterlife?
What's worse, knowing or not knowing?
What is the most important value you can pass onto your child?
Do you look to the future with eagerness or sorrow?
Are you satisfied with your life?
Do you believe that we are free to steer our own course in this world, or are our fates ordained?
God talks to you, but are you a believer of any specific religion?
Do you ever doubt God or the messages he sends you?
What color is your soul?
What is your passion?
Can you share with me an experience that truly moved you either to great joy or great sadness?
Would you rather lead or follow? Why? What role do you see yourself playing out over your life, leader or follower?
Is there any truth to the saying: keep your friends close, and your enemies closer? Do you have enemies? Do you have more friends than enemies?
Introduction
Who is your personal role model?
What is good and what is evil?
What is your favorite daydream, and why?
What Makes You Laugh?
If you were left on a desert island, what three things would you take along?
What would your life be, if it were a movie? And who would play you?
What's better: democracy or monarchy?
If you could have dinner with anyone in all of history, who would it be, and why?
Which of the five senses would be the worst for you to lose, and why?
What is the most important decision you've made in your life, and why?
What is the oddest gift you have been given?
Do you feel that you were born with a predetermined role in society? If so, how do you feel about it?
Is there ever a good reason to get blinding drunk?
What's more important - self preservation or forgiveness?
How do you handle confrontations?
If you could invent a holiday, what and when would it be? What special traditions would take place on that day?
What have you most regretted losing?
How do you view commitment?
What would your dream occupation be?
What's your favorite guilty indulgence?
What would constitute a "perfect" evening for you?